About 6 ½ years ago,
when our daughter was pregnant with our first grandchild, (which made us VERY
happy), we were discussing what we wanted to be called. I always knew I would be Nana. After all, I had a Nana, and when we had kids
my Mom became Nana and my Nana became Nannie.
So it was just natural that I would now become Nana. My husband Michael had different ideas about
being called Grandpa.
While he was very,
very happy to become a grandfather, he did not want to be called Grandpa. Every time someone asked him what he wanted
the grandkids to call him, he would respond with, “Just Mike.” No matter what anyone suggested, he always
went back to, “Just Mike.” And so—when
this precious little baby was born, on Michael’s 50th birthday no
less, he began the “Just Mike” stage.
For a while, we were
all calling him “Just Mike,” but it has since been shortened to “Mike.” He is only called that by our two
grandsons. Very few other people call
him Mike—he has always been Michael. The
boys’ other grandfather is Grandpa.
Mike and the boys are
best of friends. They enjoy each other’s
company immensely and love spending time together. They have built sand castles for hours,
played chase for longer than I could describe, they built a super cool Go Kart
together, and are already planning what to build their Mom and Dad for
Christmas next year! In short—the love
they share is incredible.
Once, when describing
his grandfathers, Austin said, “I have Mike and I have a Grandpa too.” Sometimes, when we are out with the boys, and
they call us “Mike & Nana,” I feel like Mike must be my boyfriend or
something—it’s kind of funny actually!
Oliver has recently taken to calling my husband “Mikey” when he really
wants something—or—if he can’t find him while looking for him, he will yell,
“Miiichael.” Pretty cute.
I don’t think the
respect for an adult, or any other person for that matter, comes from what you
call him or her. It comes from your
relationship and interactions with that person.
It comes as a mutual understanding between people.
So what’s in a name
you ask? I see LOVE!!